Friday, July 8, 2011

101 Ways to Flirt

So, you've practiced flirting and know the top 10 flirting techniques; now what? Well, here are 101 different things to do when flirting. These are for both guys and girls, but some are better for one or the other (If you're a girl, for example, you'll probably be the one to flutter your eyelashes; While a guy will probably offer to buy a drink). 

  1. Smile
  2. Laugh
  3. Run your fingers through your hair
  4. Touch them gently on the arm/shoulder
  5. Give them a hug
  6. Tease them
  7. Complement their clothes
  8. Say, "It seems like forever since I last saw you"
  9. Whisper
  10. Offer them a blanket or coat if it's cold
  11. Offer to buy them a drink
  12. Lean toward them
  13. Be Positive
  14. Wiink
  15. Send them a text message
  16. Find them on Myspace or Facebook and add them
  17. Drop something and see if they pick it up
  18. Brush against them "accidentally"
  19. Flutter your eyelashes
  20. If it's a nice day, suggest you go outside to enjoy the sunshine
  21. If it's a cold day, suggest to go get hot chocolate
  22. Be yourself
  23. Tell them something about who you are; a secret hope, a silly fear...
  24. Ask them what shampoo they use
  25. Open the door for them
  26. Carry something heavy for them
  27. Complement them on jewelry they're wearing
  28. Ask what they like to do for fun
  29. Ask questions about their interests
  30. Invite them to go stargazing with you
  31. Send them flowers anonymously
  32. Give them your phone number or email address
  33. Tell them they have beautiful eyes or a beautiful smile
  34. Laugh at their jokes
  35. Tell them, "I bet you can't guess what I'm thinking..." then when they fail, tell them something flirty, like "you look great today", or "We should skip class and go to the beach".
  36. Let them catch you checking them out
  37. Touch yourself, maybe put your hair behind your ear, or adjust your clothing
  38. Whistle at them
  39. Say, "Is it hot in here, or is it just you?"
  40. Blush
  41. Bite your lip and look down
  42. Give your full attention to the other person
  43. Make them a CD
  44. Invite them to a movie
  45. Invite them to watch a show or sporting event
  46. Dare them to do something
  47. Be competative -- "I bet I can beat you at racketball"
  48. Brush their hair out of their eyes
  49. Take them for a walk outside, and sit down in the grass.
  50. If you're sitting outside, offer to help her up.
  51. Let him notice you smelling him
  52. Tell her she smells great
  53. Ask them how their day was.
  54. Ask them if they're doing anything fun this weekend.
  55. Invite them to go with you and your friends someplace.
  56. Teach them how to do something
  57. Tell them you were thinking of them the other day.
  58. Lick your lips.
  59. Mirror their body language; if they talk slowly, talk slower; if they're leaning forward, lean forward toward them, too.
  60. Call them for no reason other than to say, "Hello".
  61. Suggest a book or movie you think they'd really like; they'll be impressed you are tuned into their tastes and are thinking of them.
  62. Stand up straight and don't slouch
  63. Say their name often
  64. Nod when they speak
  65. Ask them their opinion on something in the news.
  66. Leave a note someplace for them to find it
  67. Teach them a few dance moves
  68. Ask them what their favorite dessert is.
  69. Tell them you had a dream with them in it.
  70. Attend an event that they are in or want to go to.
  71. Offer them something you're eating -- gum or a piece of candy.
  72. Tell them you want their advice or input on an issue.
  73. Ask them what they would think if you asked them out.
  74. Make sure to tell them "good luck" if they are going someplace or doing something important-- taking a test, interviewing for a job, etc.
  75. Use a corny pickupline to make them laugh.
  76. Win them a prize.
  77. If they ask you a question, say, "Maybe I'll tell you... if you'll let me buy you lunch."
  78. If they looks sad, try to cheer them up.
  79. Poke them
  80. Ask if they need any help with what they're doing
  81. Hold their hand
  82. Tickle them
  83. Invite them over for a candlelight dinner
  84. Ask them what they are thinking, right now
  85. Ask them to sit next to you
  86. Tell them a secret
  87. Play a game with them
  88. Pay attention to their body language
  89. Be mysterious
  90. Make up a riddle for them to solve, with the prize being a date with you, a kiss, etc.
  91. Tell them a joke
  92. Cook something for them (cookies, or even a dinner).
  93. Dedicate a song to them on the radio
  94. Tell them, "I think I want to flirt with you"
  95. Invite them to go bike riding with you
  96. Say it's cold, and suggest you should scoot closer to avoid hypothermia
  97. Ask them what they want in a guy/girl
  98. Use sexually suggestive language in a context with something they're interested in (like, "So if you're into astronomy, you must have no problem staying up all night long")
  99. Tell them you enjoy their company
  100. Ask lightly, "Are you flirting with me?"
  101. Ask them what their name means; if they don't know, you can look it up

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